FROM JANUARY STRUGGLES TO FEBRUARY ROSES.
February has arrived, ushering in a sharp contrast from the harsh economic stretch of January. As the calendar turns, the mood shifts too red takes over shop windows, streets, and timelines, signalling the much-anticipated love month. For many young ladies and gentlemen, February carries expectations of romance, connection, and celebration, while for others it promises drama, anticipation, and mixed emotions as Valentine’s Day approaches.
Economically, love rarely follows strict models. When two hearts meet, budgets often take a back seat. Despite the reality that many young people today are no longer prioritising marriage, its importance remains significant to the growth and stability of our communities and society at large. This month, spending patterns change noticeably: money once reserved for school uniforms, fees, and household shopping is redirected to flowers, chocolates, surprise gifts, and quiet, thoughtful gestures made in secrecy.
February is expected to deliver it all—romantic proposals, first experiences of love, renewed commitments, and, inevitably, disappointment for some. As red decorations flood the streets, conversations around relationships also intensify. Even forums and conferences aimed at guiding men and women through emotional decision-making are preparing to address the realities of love, expectations, and self-respect in a fast-changing society.
Yet, beyond the glamour and public displays, it is important to remember that love and family remain the backbone of our communities. Love is not defined by surprises alone. It is about redefining purpose, understanding identity, practicing respect, and creating a safe space where two people can plan together. True love allows honest conversations about where a journey began and where it is heading shared in laughter, peace, and mutual support, free from unnecessary pressure and stress.
As one walks through the streets of Nakuru, it is clear the city is ready for this annual celebration, one that seems to have disrupted many January routines. The irony is hard to ignore: only weeks ago, families struggled with school expenses, yet this month spending on honeymoons, surprises, and roses can easily exceed figures unimaginable in January. This reality reinforces a simple truth love has a powerful influence on society, holding people together and shaping priorities in unexpected ways.
This season leaves us with important questions: What is love? What role does it play in our lives? And who truly enjoys it best? As February unfolds, may we choose balance, meaning, and sincerity. Let us build a thoughtful and responsible February, celebrating the good that love brings while remembering its deeper purpose beyond the colour red.
By Caleb Kiplagat.
February has arrived, ushering in a sharp contrast from the harsh economic stretch of January. As the calendar turns, the mood shifts too red takes over shop windows, streets, and timelines, signalling the much-anticipated love month. For many young ladies and gentlemen, February carries expectations of romance, connection, and celebration, while for others it promises drama, anticipation, and mixed emotions as Valentine’s Day approaches.
Economically, love rarely follows strict models. When two hearts meet, budgets often take a back seat. Despite the reality that many young people today are no longer prioritising marriage, its importance remains significant to the growth and stability of our communities and society at large. This month, spending patterns change noticeably: money once reserved for school uniforms, fees, and household shopping is redirected to flowers, chocolates, surprise gifts, and quiet, thoughtful gestures made in secrecy.
February is expected to deliver it all—romantic proposals, first experiences of love, renewed commitments, and, inevitably, disappointment for some. As red decorations flood the streets, conversations around relationships also intensify. Even forums and conferences aimed at guiding men and women through emotional decision-making are preparing to address the realities of love, expectations, and self-respect in a fast-changing society.
Yet, beyond the glamour and public displays, it is important to remember that love and family remain the backbone of our communities. Love is not defined by surprises alone. It is about redefining purpose, understanding identity, practicing respect, and creating a safe space where two people can plan together. True love allows honest conversations about where a journey began and where it is heading shared in laughter, peace, and mutual support, free from unnecessary pressure and stress.
As one walks through the streets of Nakuru, it is clear the city is ready for this annual celebration, one that seems to have disrupted many January routines. The irony is hard to ignore: only weeks ago, families struggled with school expenses, yet this month spending on honeymoons, surprises, and roses can easily exceed figures unimaginable in January. This reality reinforces a simple truth love has a powerful influence on society, holding people together and shaping priorities in unexpected ways.
This season leaves us with important questions: What is love? What role does it play in our lives? And who truly enjoys it best? As February unfolds, may we choose balance, meaning, and sincerity. Let us build a thoughtful and responsible February, celebrating the good that love brings while remembering its deeper purpose beyond the colour red.
By Caleb Kiplagat.
